Friends are an integral part of our lives, aren’t they? We find friends everywhere. We have them in the school, college, music classes, parties, neighbourhood, relatives. There are just too many of them. One trouble I faced was about staying connected with them for ever.
How can you stay connected with friends always? How to just not loose them in some part of your life and never see them again?
BUT ONE THING MAINTAIN FRIENDSHIP 4R EVERLASTIN LYF......!!!
FRIENDSHIP IS MORE THAN LUV.......!!!
1. Birthdays are the best way to keep connected – Note down birthdays of all your friends. Make sure you check the list once everyday. A spread sheet is the best way to keep track of birthdays. Just search the date and it’ll show you if anyone was born that day.
Also note down the numbers on one side so that you can make a quick ‘Happy Birthday Greeting’ call. Even if you’ve a long lost friend, they’ll feel good for you remembering their birthday.
2. Have an occasion, call friends to join you – If your friends are not too far away, I mean in your city, but you haven’t seen them for a while, a good way to spend time together is to go call them in your personal occasions. That way, they’ll feel good about having earned a friend who cares while you’ll make sure you still remain a good friend to them.
3. Just give them a call, man! – Well, you shouldn’t expect everyone to give you the call all the time. Take the initiative, give them a call. If you’ve too many of them, call someone every other day.
Talk about what they are doing, how’s life going, what they have enjoyed recently, share your troubles, appreciate them. I don’t say you call has to last whole day. Even a one-two minute call will suffice.
4. What is Facebook for? If you’re reading this, you probably have your own internet connection. Get on the Facebook and don’t just use it for marketing and networking. Post to someone’s wall, send a message, start a conversation. It’s quite easy these day, isn’t it?
The real problem you sometimes can’t connect with your friend is because you’ve some inner guilt that hurdles you friend approaching them. You something try to think from other’s perspectives.
You think what will they say, what will I talk about, what if they’ve a bad impression for me? Take your psychologies aside for a while and just get connected.
Even if you haven’t been in touch for a while, just give it a go. Possibly, they may be thinking the same thing you’ve been thinking all along.
It’s good to have friend and it’s good to have lots and lots of them. It’s good to stay connected with them. And hey, you don’t have to do much. Just send a simple hi if possible.
I read a wonderful quote in Reader’s Digest one day. It said ‘If you’re silent, you’re not living. To live, you’ve to be loud, colourful and noisy.’ How true are the words......!!!
NOTE:- ITS IMPORTANT THAT MAKE 3 FRIENDS IN UR LYF AND BE IN A RELATION KEEP TWO MAIN THINGS IN YOUR LYK THAT SATISFACTION AND UNDERSTANDING AUTOMATICALLY THERE WILL BE WITH U FOR EVER..........!!!